推荐一些有用的书。不是心灵鸡汤书。

樊晓薇 2020-01-16 22:56:00

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在人跌入低谷时,有一定的激励作用,但他人的奋斗之路不能模仿,一切还要自己的努力。适当看一些会重拾信心,看多了只会麻木,降低智商。
齐晓平2020-01-16 23:05:09

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  • 啥效果都没有,这种心灵鸡汤的书你喝多了还会中毒呢,我觉得这不是鸡汤,现在的毒鸡汤反而更多,他毒害了很多人的心理,以为自己看了几本鸡汤的书就无所不能了,上天入地只要你有信心,什么都可以做成,这不开玩笑呢吗?有几个人是因为看了鸡汤的书而成功的,我不信,如果真那么容易成功的话,咱都直接喝鸡汤得了。最讨厌的一句话就是你只管努力,剩下的交给天意。典型的一个毫无价值的鸡汤,很多鸡汤都是这个样子的,他根本经不起逻辑推敲,你乍一听上去好像很励志,好像很厉害的样子,其实跟没说是一样的,一点营养都没有,他光告诉你努力,怎么努力啊,努力的方向在哪里呢?如果你努力方向错了,他跟成功只能南辕北辙,跟你最终的梦想只能够背道而驰,所以鸡汤最大的一个特点就是它只顾着给你吃大力丸,你吃完大力丸之后的什么后果他不管,管杀不管埋说的就是这个。这些心灵鸡汤的书看完了之后只能更加迷惑,只能更加迷茫,因为他跟你解决不了问题,他只是一个劲儿的给你励志,不告诉你该如何去做,甚至有的心灵鸡汤和心灵鸡汤之间还会干架,这个书上这么说另一本书就那么说了,完全矛盾的说法,你说你该信谁的,同一本书里还前后矛盾,一个文章也是这样的,说了半天之后,最后又来一句,当然这个问题也要从反面来看,两头堵,结果等于什么也没说。
    麻硕士2020-01-16 23:02:23

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